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The School of Life · 发布于 2026年10月7日
Behind so many of the troubles of love lies a frustrating mystery: why do they behave the way they do? Late at night, we might write them off as mean, lazy, or actively trying to ruin our lives. Start your free Membership trial – 2,000+ articles, 1,000+ videos, 50+ courses, free for a week: https://www.theschooloflife.com/membership The truth is much deeper: they are still behaving like the clever children they once were, using brilliant survival strategies that have simply run on for decades too long. In this film, we explore how our childhood adaptations quietly poison our adult romances—and how a little understanding can transform our fury into compassion. "Behind so many of the troubles of love lies a mystery: why do they behave as they do? Why won't they signal their intentions clearly? Why are they so theatrical, so focused on their friends, so unable to relax? It isn't that we lack explanations. Especially after eleven at night, it's very clear what they're up to. They're not trying. They're mean. They're stupid. They're out to ruin our lives..." 📖 Go deeper – read the full article (Members get full access): https://www.theschooloflife.com/article/why-adults-behave-like-children-in-relationships/ ✉️ Weekly Lessons + 10% off your first order: https://www.theschooloflife.com/signup OUR COLLECTIONS https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxNMb28XmpcEwc0qydf2jSszQFSht81E https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxNMb28XmpckOvZZ_AZjD7WM2p9-6NBv https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxNMb28XmpeUL1vz9Su7OmeghBDgmj7X https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxNMb28XmpeypJMHfNbJ4RAFkRtmAN3P https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxNMb28XmpcpxBm1RoGRx4mVKNRIrKkG https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxNMb28Xmpcp7jXVszdNruKUtHZ2zuZb https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxNMb28Xmpfv2COuuJaKzy6E2n8nSMdi https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwxNMb28Xmpc1qCJ6RYYh4rKNOOlKtFIK SOCIAL MEDIA Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theschooloflifelondon Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theschooloflifeglobal TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theschooloflife LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-school-of-life-for-business CREDITS Animation: Tomás Pichardo-Espaillat https://vimeo.com/tomatico Ready to try it? https://www.theschooloflife.com/membership #Relationships #ChildhoodTrauma #Psychology #TheSchoolOfLife
